Several of us took time during the Memorial Day holiday to visit cemeteries and remember those who have served our country as well as dear family members and friends who have been laid to rest.  Each headstone represents a life that had an impact, especially to those who love, remember and miss them.  Life after loss can feel impossible and even undesirable when we are in the depths of grief.

Growth from adversity requires us to develop and increase our resilience.

Recently, South Dakota had a fierce derecho roll—or blast—through much of the state, with 28 counties reporting damage. Even by South Dakota standards, this storm tested us.